Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Our 22nd access – Denied (1st January 2011) :


Here's a very sweet gesture from my FB friend Steve Monk-Dalton: During the recent activity of parents lighting up lanterns for their alienated children, Steve has lighted this one for me with my son's name on it. Thank you so much, Steve, that really means a lot to me..
2011 is here, we should waste no time to rise up for our children and grant them back their well-deserved rights to enjoy the love & presence of both parents in their lives. A change is gonna come, its time to end all the sorrows and heartbreaks.
Adriel, daddy will be coming for you - from all directions.

(First posted on Facebook, 1st January 2011)

Our 21st access – Denied (31st December 2010) :


Adriel, here's a cute picture of both of us as panda bears, drawn by one of daddy's Facebook friends. I really like it very much because it represents the happy moments we have together.... and I have faith this day will come again soon, because we have God almighty on our side (Romans 8:31)

(First posted on Facebook, 31st December 2010)

Our 20th access – Denied (25th December 2010) :


It was a lonely Christmas without my son. Though I did not get the best Christmas gift (to be with Adriel), I thank God for the newspaper article was published on Christmas Eve as it has helped to raise public awareness on this injustice on many parents and innocent children.

2010 has been a tough year for many of us target parents, but we are blessed to have so many people here on FB praying for us & cheering us on. I believe God put us through these trials for a reason; besides fighting to be with our children, we have the responsibility to highlight this Parental Alienation issue to the masses. It is an emotional child abuse to use children as pawns to deprive them of one of their parents, no child should be made to go through this mental torture.

Lets continue to fight against this child abuse in 2011, our children deserve better

(First posted on Facebook, 25th December 2010)

Our 19th access – Denied (24th December 2010) :


Adriel, Christmas is here again, & daddy must admit its tough for me & many other parents who can't be with their children. But today I overheard this song below with the words “There was always Christmas time, JESUS came to stay” & I was reminded of the true meaning of the season: Jesus is the way, & we can do all things through Him!

Love & Miss u, Merry Christmas!

(First posted on Facebook, 24th December 2010)

Our 18th access – Denied (18th December 2010) :


Adriel, u are a kind boy with a gentle soul, & daddy will always remember Galatians 5:22-23 is one of yr fav Bible verses. That is also why I put it at the end of this video I made for u : )
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness & self-control. Against such things there is no law” - Galatians 5:22-23

(First posted on Facebook, 18th December 2010)

Our 17th access – Denied (17th December 2010) :


Adriel, these new animated movies always remind me of you as I remember how much fun we had watching Kungfu Panda, Madagascar, Chicken Little, Horton The Elephant, Over The Hedge etc together with mommy.


I pray that God will watch over you everyday, and also for the hearts of those to be softened so that we will see each other again soon. I miss you badly son..

(First posted on Facebook, 17th December 2010)

Our 16th access – Denied (11th December 2010) :


Adriel, though we have been deprived of access and contacts for many weeks, daddy has not given up trying to reach you.

Like all alienated children, I know you have been compelled and influenced to stop displaying any affection for daddy and all my relatives. But I have never stopped praying for hearts to be softened.. and rest assured that daddy will always be here for you.

I thank God for friends who are praying for us and cheering us on here on Facebook. And I know they would love to have you here with us one day, son : )

(First posted on Facebook, 11th December 2010)

Our 15th access – Denied (10th December 2010) :


Adriel, in about 2 weeks Christmas will be here. It is a time for giving and sharing but daddy knows I will once again be denied from seeing you. It will be a 3rd Christmas without you but that will not deter me from praying and keeping the faith. We have a God who hears our cries and He will answer our prayers. I love and miss you very much, son... Merry Christmas : )

(First posted on Facebook, 10th December 2010)

Our 14th access – Denied (4th December 2010) :


Adriel, besides Road Runner, daddy remembers Tom and Jerry is also one of your favourite cartoons when you were younger, as well as Popeye and Tweety Bird.
I miss watching them on TV together with you...

(First posted on Facebook, 4th December 2010)

Our 13th access – Denied (3rd December 2010) :


Here's a video made by another parent who had also been deprived of his child. Please join me and pray for these parents all around the world who have been longing to see their children but have been unable to do so. God hears our cries..

(First posted on Facebook, 3rd December 2010)

Our 12th access – Denied (27th November 2010) :


Adriel, daddy had a dream about you again last night. I dreamed that I was in your school and I was happy that you did not avoid me. But you were worried about the trouble you will get into if you are seen responding to me. I gave you a big hug and assured you that things will be all right, and there is absolutely nothing wrong for a dad and son to spend time together as God has intended.
Love is from God, and our love will conquer all : )

(First posted on Facebook, 27 November 2010)

Our 11th access – Denied (26th November 2010) :


Congrats on your PSLE results Adriel, daddy is so proud of you! I had wanted to take you out for a celebration, but once again I could not reach you. Daddy will do everything within my means to reunite us again, regardless of how others might think or say otherwise. You deserve your daddy in your life like any other child.
Love and miss you very much, son : )

(First posted on Facebook, 26 November 2010)

Our 10th access – Denied (20th November 2010) :


A target parent once wrote : “When alienators use your child as a pawn to deprive you, it affects you and you struggle to survive, like how you gasp for air when out of breath. Your 'struggling' actions will then be misintepreted by others as you are ‘stubbornly insisting in your ways’ to see your child, and that your ‘aggressiveness are only making things worse’. And when you hear well-meaning people asking you to ‘let it go, for the sake of your child’, you know the alienators have achieved their goals of indirectly using others to discourage you and undermine your parenting role. Alienators are being given the empowerment to cause severe damage to the relationships with your child, as well as to brainwash and influence ANYONE to make you give up, including the courts and those around you.”

(First posted on Facebook, 20 November 2010)

Our 9th access – Denied (19th November 2010) :


Otilia Ayala (a FB friend) : “I just woke up from a dream, about Adriel your son, we were traveling, and I gave him a big hug and told him ‘This is from your dad, he loves u’, He said ‘I know’ and started to cry..
In this dream I was a worker transporting kids. I asked your son what he wanted to drink? He said milk in a bottle. A dream I needed to tell u.
As a native american we believe dreams are visions & messages from God. I will pray that God moves the hearts of the workers in your case. God bless u and Adriel."

(First posted on Facebook, 19 November 2010)