Sunday, November 14, 2010

Our 8th access – Denied (13th November 2010)


"The only way for evil to flourish is for good men to do nothing." - Edmund Burke

(First posted on Facebook, 13 November 2010)

Our 7th access – Denied (12th November 2010)


"The limits of tyrants are prescribed by the endurance of those whom they oppress.” ~ Frederick Douglass

(First posted on Facebook, 12 November 2010)

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Our 6th access – Denied (6th November 2010)


Adriel, you may not be aware now, but soon you'll know we are really blessed to have so many people all around the world and in Singapore supporting us and praying for us to be together again.
I hope the authorities will also give us their much needed support.

(first posted on Facebook, 6 November 2010)

Our 5th access – Denied (5th November 2010)


Happy Birthday to you, Adriel. I am sorry we could not spend time together. Daddy did everything I can to reach out to you on your special day, and I waited for many hours for you to return home, but you were nowhere to be found..

No one can stop me from being a dad to you. I promise you that the day we go out together again will be a day filled with so much fun, like a belated birthday celebration that you will never forget. Many of daddy's friends here on FB are also wishing you a happy birthday, you are loved by so many of us, son..

(first posted on Facebook, 5 November 2010)

Friday, November 5, 2010

Happy 12th Birthday Adriel ! : )











Adriel, here's some pictures of you celebrating your previous birthdays with your classmates and friends.
Have a great 12th birthday this year, I hope to see you later, son.
Love,
Dad

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Our 4th Access - DENIED (30 Oct 2010)


Adriel, I know you have been put through another tough day. It pains me that you were being treated by others so cruelly and deprived of your freewill to love even your own father..
I vow to go through anything to fight for you...and I mean anything. Whatever happens to daddy, remember that I have never given up on you. You made my life worth living, son, I can never ask God for more.

(first posted on Facebook, 30 October 2010)

Our 3rd Access - DENIED (29 Oct 2010)


Adriel, regardless of what others make you to do or say, daddy will never leave you, son. Anyone trying to separate us will just be wasting their time, they obviously do not understand the intensity of a bond between a father and a son.

(first posted on Facebook, 29 October 2010)

Our 2nd Access - DENIED (23 Oct 2010)


Adriel, today I was once again told that your "answer is still no". Its nothing new to daddy as I have heard it all before in the past, but yet after telling me that, we were still able to play together happily at playgrounds, outdoors and go on many other outings.
I was there during the first 9 years of your life, and daddy knows it when you really mean what you say and when you do not. I would have walked away by myself if you truly have no love for me, I do not even need to be told by anyone. But I am still here, and you know the reason, son.

(first posted on Facebook, 23 October 2010)

Our 1st Access - DENIED (22 Oct 2010)


Adriel, God knows how much I have been longing for this day. But when I was told that you “refuses to see me”, I was devastated, not because of what you said, but because I know that implies that I will not be able to see you. Daddy is aware of what you have been put through, and I know what your actual choice would be had you been given the freewill to choose. Love you always, son..

(first posted on Facebook, 22 October 2010)

Monday, November 1, 2010

DAY 182 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, I know you have been placed in a difficult position forbidding you to display any affections for daddy, but do not fear and do not worry my son, daddy knows you have no part in this entire hating campaign. You are my son and daddy can see your deepest and truest emotions through your eyes. Daddy knows what you really long for, I sense all your purest happiness and joy whenever you spend time with me and mommy. That is what they have robbed from your innocent life, and that is also what I will fight to get back for you. Others may try to tear me away from your life, but rest assured that they will not stand a chance. Your daddy is a fighter and he will keep battling to be with you, regardless of the price he has to pay.

These 6 months have been tough for the both of us, but I thank God for the strength and also for all the awesome friends and support I get from Facebook in my pursue to be with you. And I am afraid I have bad news for those who hope that this 6 months blockage will make me give up and walk away, because I am still here, stronger than before, and battling harder than ever for my son.

I love and miss you very much, my son...we will meet again...soon.

(first posted on Facebook, 13 October 2010)

DAY 181 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


“Between parent and child there is a bridge, which neither time nor death can shatter; each stands at one end, needing to cross, and meet."

(first posted on Facebook, 12 October 2010)

DAY 180 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :

This movie trailer shows what happens when a target parent tries to pick up the children, and how the Alienator can easily sabotage things and instigate an argument.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49B2_tcNbRs

It portrays these facts accurately -

1. The Alienator and the allies will always claim that the children do not wish to go out with the target parent. To them, the Court Order is "just a piece of paper".

2. The target parent is being denied and deprived of time with the children without any valid reasons. Any attempts to reason things with the Alienator will be considered as creating trouble.

3. The children will echo the exact words the Alienator says or wants them to say, without any logic or valid explanations.

4. The Alienator always acts like a victim needing protection, but is in fact playing with the emotions of others (the children, relatives, friends, court, schools etc), so as to turn them against the ex-spouse at all costs.

(first posted on Facebook, 11 October 2010)

DAY 179 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


The PSLE exams ended today, I wish to express my heartfelt gratitude to all my FB friends for your kind wishes and prayers for my son.

Adriel, now that your exams are over, rest assured that daddy will continue to pursue for our rights to be together. That day will come soon : )

(first posted on Facebook, 10 October 2010)

DAY 178 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Here's a photo of you at grandma's house some years ago. Daddy has not seen you for half a year now... I wonder how much taller you had grown : )

(first posted on Facebook, 9 October 2010)

DAY 177 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, this is the beansprout plant that you grew for your school project some years ago, I took a picture of it partly because I thought it looked nice with the toy car beside it, but most of all, I am always proud of all your "masterpieces" : )

(first posted on Facebook, 8 October 2010)

DAY 176 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, this is your favourite scene from "Bruce Almighty", it really made you, me and mommy laugh non-stop watching it. I got the DVD just for you and I remember one evening as I was about to play it, you told me "Dad dad, you are really going to made me laugh a lot again with this one!"... I will never forget those special moments, son : )

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnm079stw68&feature=related

(first posted on Facebook, 7 October 2010)

DAY 175 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Still praying for your PSLE exams, son. I tried to draw your favourite Mr Men lookalike when I did this drawing for you during your exams many years ago. I have posted it before but I want to repost it again now.

You can do it, Adriel! Daddy is proud of you : )

(first posted on Facebook, 6 October 2010)

DAY 174 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


At this time of your PSLE exams son, rest assured that you have all my love, support and prayers, as well as many more well-wishes and prayers coming from daddy's FB friends from Singapore and all over the world : )

And I also wish to take this opportunity to share this beautiful poem written by my FB friend Paulette MacDonald for her alienated step children -

LOVE IS FOR EVERYONE!
(Inspired by a page from Jessie’s Diary - see picture)

My Love for you both
I declare to be true.
For loving you both
Is all I ever wanted to do.

And now, an ocean of lies,
Keeps us apart.
But my love never wavers,
You’re deep in my heart.

I pray one day soon,
The courts will wake up.
Until that day comes,
We must never give up.

With every beat of my heart,
I’ll shout out your names.
And I’ll ask the courts,
Are you completely Insane?

For you are not to blame
For this alienation,
The courts have allowed
to sweep through our nation.

I pray for you both,
To be brave and strong.
And to know in your hearts,
You have done nothing wrong.

For the day will come,
When truth will prevail.
And the courts will know
That they have failed.

And when that day comes
You both shall see,
For I have faith in you and me.

And we will show the courts,
That we were meant to be-
Forever and Always
A “Happy” family.

And I will declare to the courts,
And the whole world to see
That
“Love is for everyone!”
Especially you & me.

I will Always, Always
Love you both
Out Loud!
Paulette
Xox

(first posted on Facebook, 5 October 2010)

DAY 173 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


"When people fear the government, thats Tyranny. But when the government fears the people, that is Liberty."
- Senator Nancy Schaefer, who exposed CPS as a child kidnapping ring, and who was murdered in her home.

"THE CHILD" - coming in November 2010.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-9rksEZjLY&feature=related

(first posted on Facebook, 4 October 2010)

DAY 172 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, I have always enjoyed playing with you at playgrounds. Too bad we do not have a chance to play together on this suspension bridge which is located just below grandma's flat at Serangoon Ave 4 where you are staying now... or perhaps you have already moved to another address, I am not sure. I really hope to know your whereabouts, son..

(first posted on Facebook, 3 October 2010)

DAY 171 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


A rather blurry picture of us sharing a ride on the Luge at Sentosa many years ago when you were still quite young. The Luge ride was definitely your favourite activity there. As you grew older you became really good at it and soon your old man was trailing behind you.

Its been more than 2 years since we went to Sentosa together, I wonder how fast are you now. : )

(first posted on Facebook, 2 October 2010)

DAY 170 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Here's the promo trailer for the powerful documentary film, "THE CHILD" coming in November 2010.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ul6Eod0j8Q4&feature=related

Parental Rights are GOD given, no one should meddle with that and go against GOD's will. There will be consequences for attempting to play God..

(first posted on Facebook, 1 October 2010)

DAY 169 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :

Happy Children's Day, Adriel ! : )

This is the last time that you are celebrating this occasion, as you will be a young teenager next year. Though I am still being disallowed from seeing you, God knows how much I want to spend this day with you, son.

This song is for all the children whose parents are being restricted or blocked by the authorities from being with them. Children, always know that both your dads and mums love you equally, and that would remain unchanged no matter what obstacles are being put in their way.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtSbedMeF6s&feature=related


(first posted on Facebook, 30 September 2010)

DAY 168 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Me and mommy threw a party for you at Rasa Sentosa Resort Hotel on your 8th birthday and many of your classmates were there to celebrate with you. You boys had so much fun playing that day : )
Other than riding in cars, I know you love hotel stays, and Daddy would always do my best to book hotel stays at Rasa Sentosa, Ritz Carlton, Westin Stamford, Pan Pacific, Traders etc, so that the 3 of us can spend quality time together.

(first posted on Facebook, 29 September 2010)

DAY 167 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Lol..this was you being very amazed to find such a huge pumpkin at the Tanglin Mall supermarket some years ago. I remember the 3 of us all love to do supermarket shopping, and you are always playing with the cart : )

(first posted on Facebook, 28 September 2010)

DAY 166 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


“I have not cried for awhile Cheng. I held back my tears for fear that the court would judge me as ‘crazy’ and make it worse.They are always looking for something to judge and scrutunize me over, even the slightest cry... for help is crushed. Yesterday I had a very bad day in court. And today, seeing your comment finally got me to cry and get those tears out. I know how you feel. I love to teach my children too, that is one thing that good parents do. And it does show me that you are a good dad and that you do want the best for your children. My heart goes out to you because I know that children thrive better when they are allowed to see their loving parents. And thank you, because I needed to cry. I do not understand why anybody would do this to us or our children. I hope to God that they stop this inhumane torture of the innocents”
- Renea J Chafe, my friend from Deerfield Beach, FL.

(first posted on Facebook, 27 September 2010)

Friday, October 8, 2010

DAY 165 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, I am sure you can recognise these stickers. Mommy pasted them on the bathroom wall to make your bath time more fun. That was many years ago.

(first posted on Facebook, 26 September 2010)

DAY 164 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


This letter was published a few days ago on The Straits Times forum.

The writer asked what is being done to address the on-going issue of parents violating court orders granting their ex-spouses access to their children.

I'm not sure if the authority will reply, but it is shocking to see Court Order papers being treated like Toilet papers by errant parents who continue to cut off their children from contacts with their ex-spouses without any accountability.

With the majority of parents with Care & Control being mothers, it will be really sad to see the authority bowing down to women's groups and allowing the oppressions to continue. The authority have the moral obligation to help the children maintain proper and regular contacts with both their parents. This is their basic rights as Singapore children.

(first posted on Facebook, 25 September 2010)

DAY 163 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :

A recent BBC news, where Sir Nicholas Wall, president of the Family Division of the High Court has warned that separating parents can do their children enormous harm by using them as a "battlefield" and "ammunition".

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-11380470

Some quotes by Sir Nicholas -

"Parents simply do not realise the damage they do to their children by the battles they wage over them."

"A child was not a piece of property which can be parcelled up and moved around at will."

"Parents often found it difficult to understand that children loved and had a loyalty to both parents."

"There is nothing worse, for most children, than for their parents to denigrate each other."

"If a child's mother makes it clear to the child that his or her father is worthless - and vice versa - the child's sense of self-worth can be irredeemably damaged."

"...Parliament rather than judges should decide whether shared parenting orders - where children live with each parent at different times - were to become the norm over children living with one parent and having regular contact with the other."

"...the separated parent's role in the lives of his or her children retains the same degree of importance as when the parents were living together..."

"Children do better in every way if they have two parents in their lives, and the children of separated families are no exception." - Craig Pickering from Families Need Fathers

(first posted on Facebook, 24 September 2010)

DAY 162 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Remember this green car, Adriel? Though Daddy cannot afford a car, I know you love to travel in cars, so I did my best to rent a car every weekend and take you and mommy out on outings to many places all over Singapore. I know those were your favourite times as I could sense your joy and happiness. And that means everything to me.

(first posted on Facebook, 23 September 2010)

DAY 161 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, remember this 2006 Vacation Bible School poster featurng you in the middle? (you were dressed in blue, standing beside the boy in white).
You are such a special boy to many of us, and daddy is so proud of you : )

(first posted on Facebook, 22 September 2010)

DAY 160 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Like most boys, you were fascinated by Spiderman. You wrote this note on the refrigerator some years ago before Spiderman 3 was shown in the theatres.

"The battles lies within"...how true... but rest assured God will help us overcome all obstacles and make things right for us.

And we shall watch Spiderman 4 and 5 together son : )

(first posted on Facebook, 21 September 2010)

DAY 159 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, you were so fond of the sandcastle kit made by uncle Alvin Lee that I took a bus all the way to his house in the east to purchase it from him one night after work, and brought it home for you.

Since then, we had so much fun playing with the kit, building all sorts of sandcastles with it at either East Coast Park or at the Sentosa beach.

I am not sure if you still keep that sandcastle kit with you now, but these photos will always remind me of the great times we had together at the beach.

(first posted on Facebook, 20 September 2010)

DAY 158 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, on our last trip to Changi Airport with mommy during our access time, remember we did this "drawing" together? I love this photo with our hands together side by side : )

Daddy cannot be by your side now, despite my plea to the family court to let me help you with your exams. I hope you are doing well with your preparation, I am praying for you everyday, son.

(first posted on Facebook, 19 September 2010)

DAY 157 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Temaek Review yesterday published the below story on me (which was originally written by a USA group AngiEmedia) but they did not ask or inform me about it. TR copied and pasted almost the entire article from the AngiEmedia site, and I have been trying to contact them on this. Knowing their reputation as a webpage voicing out against the government, I do not want anyone to get the incorrect impression that my pursue here on FB is to go against any authorities. I have said before and I will say it again, that I am NOT into politics, and I am only a normal father who wants to be with my son.


On this TR page, I was disturbed to read about some unpleasant things and accusations being commented about me. Some friends of mine who knew about this were kind enough to respond promptly in my defence, and I am really thankful for that.

(first posted on Facebook, 18 September 2010)

DAY 156 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :

A new Parental Alienation video on YouTube, and another sad story of a parent whose children were alienated and taken away from him since 1997...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F6TCpN_7mx0

Why be so inhumane and put loving parents and innocent children through 13 long years of painful separation and endless emotional abuse?

(first posted on Facebook, 17 September 2010)

DAY 155 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :

To all alienators : If your children ever mean anything to you, its time to put aside your personal bitterness and agenda to seriously consider what is really in their best interest. I am sure you yourself do not like to be forced to choose between your own parents, so why force your innocent children to make such a choice?

http://www2.tricities.com/news/2010/jul/29/children-caught-custody-battles-face-challenges-ar-354430/

(first posted on Facebook, 16 September 2010)

DAY 154 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


My plea to help my son with his exams was not approved by the Family Court.

This is my REPLY LETTER which I emailed to

- The Family Court
- Ministry Of Law and all its ministers
- PM Lee Hsien Loong
- SM Goh Chok Tong
- MM Lee Kuan Yew
- SM Prof S Jayakumar
- DPM Wong Kan Seng
- DPM Teo Chee Hean
- Minister Lim Boon Heng
- Minister Lim Swee Say
- MCYS and all its ministers


To whom it may concern,

It is truly regrettable that the Family Court is not willing to consider my appeal to be there for my son during this critical period of his life.

How my son had suffered academically over the months is the best living proof that your 6 months suspension of my presence in his life has done him more harm than good. This is obviously not in his "higher" or "paramount" interest as you had repeatedly claimed.

And even with the nationwide promotion of "Dads For Life" by MCYS that clearly supports the importance of fathers in children's lives, my access to my son continues to be denied without any valid reasons given.

With your on-going practice of limiting and suspending access time of parents, you are letting hundreds and thousands of innocent children down by depriving them of a normal emotional growth and a healthy relationship with their parents.

This is going to have a huge negative impact on our entire society and country as we all know.

Mr Cheng

(first posted on Facebook, 15 September 2010)

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

DAY 153 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


I was rather surprised to see this detailed article written on my case. It was posted on the net just a few days ago.

http://angiemedia.com/2010/09/11/singapore-schools-and-courts-enable-parental-alienation-child-abuse/

(first posted on Facebook, 14 September 2010)

DAY 152 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


I will always remember 14 Sep 2008, it was exactly 2 years ago today that the 3 of us last went out together to Takashimaya. I recall we were in an art & craft shop, and you asked me to get an art & craft item for you, and I responded by saying "Sure, we can do this art & craft thing together".

The next thing I know, mommy went to pay for that item at the counter, and soon after, the both of you vanished. I tried contacting mommy after that but there was no response, I waited outside the shop for a long time but there was no sight of the both of you. That was how our last access time outing ended, very adruptly and without any explanations of what was going on.

And from September 2008 to June 2009, for a period of 9 consecutive months, we were totally deprived of our access time together. When this was brought up to the Family Court, not only did they not enforce and give us make up for our access time as agreed in the court order, instead they reduced it to just 1 hour per week, and it had to be at this Thye Hua Kwan family centre assigned by them where many parents have to fork out $100-$120 per hour to see their own children. It was really tough on daddy, but I had to put up with everything in order to see you.

(first posted on Facebook, 13 September 2010)

DAY 151 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


“Once again your inquiries are honest and straight forward. Not answering these honestly and timely is damaging and neglegent. The real crime on their part is not keeping a bridge of communication through these executive branches to you. You are doing more to be proactive for this child than anyone I ever knew. These people in charge of authority that read this letter should carry a heavy burden now. This story needs a happy ending, it has been written too long. Adriel needs his life story to have a happy ending with you in his life.” - Cyndi MacDonald, my friend from Blaine, MN (Thank you Cyndi, that means a lot to me and my son..)

(first posted on Facebook, 12 September 2010)

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

DAY 150 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, you used to sing this song aloud when you were younger with your lovely voice, and I would go "Wow, what song is that?".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ijQUkkFq-Hc&feature=related

Its true we all have our fair share of "Bad Day", you have to cope with your PSLE exams now without daddy there to help you, and give you love and support. And I have to live my life everyday without hearing your lovely voice around me.

In times like these, we pray. Because there will always be sunshine after the rain, God made it that way for us.

(first posted on Facebook, 11 September 2010)


DAY 149 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Here's my LETTER which none of the English papers is willing to publish. So I emailed it to
- the Family Court
- the Ministry Of Law and all its ministers
- the Ministry Of Education and all its ministers
- and also cc to MCYS and all its ministers.


A plea from a parent to be there for his child

Lately MCYS has been promoting the nationwide “Dads For Life” movement, emphasizing the importance of fathers in children's life. I am a divorced parent with joint custody of my son. However, due to changes in rulings of the Family Court and blockages from his school, I have been excluded from his life in every way. I doubt these actions of the school and the Family Court are in any way close to even supporting this movement.

Since the divorce, my son has been brainwashed by his care-takers to build hostility against me. A letter was then sent to his principal, claiming he was “traumatized” by me communicating with his teachers. Consequently, the principal demanded me to stay away “in the best interest of my son”. They also evaded all information pertaining to him from me. In November 2009 at their school carnival, his class teacher even warned me to stay away or they will engage security force against me. Though I have a right to see my son, I complied with their demands to avoid an unpleasant scene.

I used to have 8-hour weekly access to my son, but it was reduced, and recently even suspended for 6-months by the Family Court claiming it was “in his higher interest”. Without his father’s presence, it affected my son who used to be a top achiever. His recent grades have deteriorated tremendously, and needs to attend extra lessons specially catered for him. Much as I want to help my son with his PSLE examinations, I cannot even do so as a father.

I hope the Family Court and MOE can enlighten me on the following -

1. How is the 6-months suspension of my presence in my son’s life in his “higher interest”? Now that he has suffered severely in academic performance, may I ask how has that decision made by the Family Court benefited him or his examinations?

2. The school and the Family Court are constantly barring me from my son. May I ask what are they protecting him from? Is his father a convicted criminal?

3. I have been very obliging whenever asked by the school to stay away. But why wasn’t I even informed when my son’s grades are deteriorating?

It pains me as a parent to see my child struggling and I am not even allowed to be there for him. All I ask is access time with him to help in his examinations, and to offer him love and support during this crucial time of his life.

Is a father’s involvement in his child’s life too much to ask? Isn’t this exactly what the nationwide “Dads For Life” movement has been calling out all fathers to do for their children?

Yours truly,
Mr Cheng Wee

(first posted on Facebook, 10 September 2010)

DAY 148 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Ken, you are such an inspiration to all of us parents! I am overjoyed to receive this latest good news in this video.

http://video.au.msn.com/watch/video/father-and-son-reunited/x4bk2h9

Parents, keep fighting for your children, they need that from you.

(first posted on Facebook, 9 September 2010)


DAY 147 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Its sad that I cannot be with you this September holidays, Adriel. I just want you to know that daddy has never forgotten about you, and its our family court that is disallowing me from spending time with you. I hope you will get to read this one day and understand the truth.

(first posted on Facebook, 8 September 2010)

DAY 146 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, this was you back in 2008 at the Singapore Flyer building observing the balloon maker at work. There was this interesting flight simulation school there which I had wanted to enrol a class as a surprise birthday gift for you, but never had a chance to do so due to the Family Court rulings.
I pray for God to open up the eyes, minds and hearts of people, so that we can go there again together very soon.

(first posted on Facebook, 7 September 2010)

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

DAY 145 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


”No one fights this hard for their child if there is no love. Wee, you have already proven your love over and over again. It is so wrong what is happening to you and your son. Never give up on your son and you will prevail. Many are praying for you and your son.” - Kim Paluch Moore

(first posted on Facebook, 6 September 2010)


DAY 144 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Here's the movie on Parental Alienation that many are talking about. It shows why bitter parents cannot control their own hatred, and resort to turning their innocent children against their ex-spouses.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxL9-Wt19HI&ob=av1n


Parental Alienation is an intense emotional and mental damage that will affect the children and haunt them for a long time....like a "monster" in their closet.

(first posted on Facebook, 5 September 2010)

DAY 143 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, among daddy's FB friends, there is a USA auntie named Brenda Spencer Eberwein who showed me the spirit of fighting for your own flesh & blood and what it means to have undying love for your loved ones.

I am sad to learn that her husband has just passed away yesterday, and I pray that God will be with her and all the families and friends during this difficult period..

Brenda, I am truly sorry for your loss. If you are reading this, I just want to tell you that you are a shining star to all of us and I am proud to call you my friend.

(first posted on Facebook, 4 September 2010)

DAY 142 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


I remember you once told me MR BUMP is one of your most adored characters of the MR MEN series created by the late Mr Roger Hargreaves.

Daddy likes MR BUMP too, in fact I aspire to be like him. Because no matter how many times he falls or knocks into things and have wounds and bandages all over his body, he will always keep a smile on his face and carries on doing what needs to be done.

(first posted on Facebook, 3 September 2010)

DAY 141 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, surely you will recognise this "monster", you love to imitate him after every Just For Laughs show with the line "Mommy...Its Over!...". LOL..

(first posted on Facebook, 2 September 2010)


DAY 140 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


There was a lot of hype about this Songs Of The Sea show at Sentosa when it was first launched. I took you and mommy to catch it 2 years ago during an outing we had, and I remember you were not impressed after watching. Me neither, what I really enjoy was being there with you : )

(first posted on Facebook, 1 September 2010)

DAY 139 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, the Night Safari has always been one of your favourite destinations, especially riding in the tramp and catching glimpses of the animals really up close. I remember you love to watch the animal show performances, remember that guy who would always pretend he lost his "pet" and ask the zoo-keeper to find for him? lol.. : )

(first posted on Facebook, 31 August 2010)