Sunday, November 14, 2010

Our 8th access – Denied (13th November 2010)


"The only way for evil to flourish is for good men to do nothing." - Edmund Burke

(First posted on Facebook, 13 November 2010)

Our 7th access – Denied (12th November 2010)


"The limits of tyrants are prescribed by the endurance of those whom they oppress.” ~ Frederick Douglass

(First posted on Facebook, 12 November 2010)

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Our 6th access – Denied (6th November 2010)


Adriel, you may not be aware now, but soon you'll know we are really blessed to have so many people all around the world and in Singapore supporting us and praying for us to be together again.
I hope the authorities will also give us their much needed support.

(first posted on Facebook, 6 November 2010)

Our 5th access – Denied (5th November 2010)


Happy Birthday to you, Adriel. I am sorry we could not spend time together. Daddy did everything I can to reach out to you on your special day, and I waited for many hours for you to return home, but you were nowhere to be found..

No one can stop me from being a dad to you. I promise you that the day we go out together again will be a day filled with so much fun, like a belated birthday celebration that you will never forget. Many of daddy's friends here on FB are also wishing you a happy birthday, you are loved by so many of us, son..

(first posted on Facebook, 5 November 2010)

Friday, November 5, 2010

Happy 12th Birthday Adriel ! : )











Adriel, here's some pictures of you celebrating your previous birthdays with your classmates and friends.
Have a great 12th birthday this year, I hope to see you later, son.
Love,
Dad

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Our 4th Access - DENIED (30 Oct 2010)


Adriel, I know you have been put through another tough day. It pains me that you were being treated by others so cruelly and deprived of your freewill to love even your own father..
I vow to go through anything to fight for you...and I mean anything. Whatever happens to daddy, remember that I have never given up on you. You made my life worth living, son, I can never ask God for more.

(first posted on Facebook, 30 October 2010)

Our 3rd Access - DENIED (29 Oct 2010)


Adriel, regardless of what others make you to do or say, daddy will never leave you, son. Anyone trying to separate us will just be wasting their time, they obviously do not understand the intensity of a bond between a father and a son.

(first posted on Facebook, 29 October 2010)

Our 2nd Access - DENIED (23 Oct 2010)


Adriel, today I was once again told that your "answer is still no". Its nothing new to daddy as I have heard it all before in the past, but yet after telling me that, we were still able to play together happily at playgrounds, outdoors and go on many other outings.
I was there during the first 9 years of your life, and daddy knows it when you really mean what you say and when you do not. I would have walked away by myself if you truly have no love for me, I do not even need to be told by anyone. But I am still here, and you know the reason, son.

(first posted on Facebook, 23 October 2010)

Our 1st Access - DENIED (22 Oct 2010)


Adriel, God knows how much I have been longing for this day. But when I was told that you “refuses to see me”, I was devastated, not because of what you said, but because I know that implies that I will not be able to see you. Daddy is aware of what you have been put through, and I know what your actual choice would be had you been given the freewill to choose. Love you always, son..

(first posted on Facebook, 22 October 2010)

Monday, November 1, 2010

DAY 182 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, I know you have been placed in a difficult position forbidding you to display any affections for daddy, but do not fear and do not worry my son, daddy knows you have no part in this entire hating campaign. You are my son and daddy can see your deepest and truest emotions through your eyes. Daddy knows what you really long for, I sense all your purest happiness and joy whenever you spend time with me and mommy. That is what they have robbed from your innocent life, and that is also what I will fight to get back for you. Others may try to tear me away from your life, but rest assured that they will not stand a chance. Your daddy is a fighter and he will keep battling to be with you, regardless of the price he has to pay.

These 6 months have been tough for the both of us, but I thank God for the strength and also for all the awesome friends and support I get from Facebook in my pursue to be with you. And I am afraid I have bad news for those who hope that this 6 months blockage will make me give up and walk away, because I am still here, stronger than before, and battling harder than ever for my son.

I love and miss you very much, my son...we will meet again...soon.

(first posted on Facebook, 13 October 2010)

DAY 181 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


“Between parent and child there is a bridge, which neither time nor death can shatter; each stands at one end, needing to cross, and meet."

(first posted on Facebook, 12 October 2010)

DAY 180 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :

This movie trailer shows what happens when a target parent tries to pick up the children, and how the Alienator can easily sabotage things and instigate an argument.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=49B2_tcNbRs

It portrays these facts accurately -

1. The Alienator and the allies will always claim that the children do not wish to go out with the target parent. To them, the Court Order is "just a piece of paper".

2. The target parent is being denied and deprived of time with the children without any valid reasons. Any attempts to reason things with the Alienator will be considered as creating trouble.

3. The children will echo the exact words the Alienator says or wants them to say, without any logic or valid explanations.

4. The Alienator always acts like a victim needing protection, but is in fact playing with the emotions of others (the children, relatives, friends, court, schools etc), so as to turn them against the ex-spouse at all costs.

(first posted on Facebook, 11 October 2010)

DAY 179 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


The PSLE exams ended today, I wish to express my heartfelt gratitude to all my FB friends for your kind wishes and prayers for my son.

Adriel, now that your exams are over, rest assured that daddy will continue to pursue for our rights to be together. That day will come soon : )

(first posted on Facebook, 10 October 2010)

DAY 178 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Here's a photo of you at grandma's house some years ago. Daddy has not seen you for half a year now... I wonder how much taller you had grown : )

(first posted on Facebook, 9 October 2010)

DAY 177 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, this is the beansprout plant that you grew for your school project some years ago, I took a picture of it partly because I thought it looked nice with the toy car beside it, but most of all, I am always proud of all your "masterpieces" : )

(first posted on Facebook, 8 October 2010)

DAY 176 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, this is your favourite scene from "Bruce Almighty", it really made you, me and mommy laugh non-stop watching it. I got the DVD just for you and I remember one evening as I was about to play it, you told me "Dad dad, you are really going to made me laugh a lot again with this one!"... I will never forget those special moments, son : )

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jnm079stw68&feature=related

(first posted on Facebook, 7 October 2010)

DAY 175 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Still praying for your PSLE exams, son. I tried to draw your favourite Mr Men lookalike when I did this drawing for you during your exams many years ago. I have posted it before but I want to repost it again now.

You can do it, Adriel! Daddy is proud of you : )

(first posted on Facebook, 6 October 2010)

DAY 174 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


At this time of your PSLE exams son, rest assured that you have all my love, support and prayers, as well as many more well-wishes and prayers coming from daddy's FB friends from Singapore and all over the world : )

And I also wish to take this opportunity to share this beautiful poem written by my FB friend Paulette MacDonald for her alienated step children -

LOVE IS FOR EVERYONE!
(Inspired by a page from Jessie’s Diary - see picture)

My Love for you both
I declare to be true.
For loving you both
Is all I ever wanted to do.

And now, an ocean of lies,
Keeps us apart.
But my love never wavers,
You’re deep in my heart.

I pray one day soon,
The courts will wake up.
Until that day comes,
We must never give up.

With every beat of my heart,
I’ll shout out your names.
And I’ll ask the courts,
Are you completely Insane?

For you are not to blame
For this alienation,
The courts have allowed
to sweep through our nation.

I pray for you both,
To be brave and strong.
And to know in your hearts,
You have done nothing wrong.

For the day will come,
When truth will prevail.
And the courts will know
That they have failed.

And when that day comes
You both shall see,
For I have faith in you and me.

And we will show the courts,
That we were meant to be-
Forever and Always
A “Happy” family.

And I will declare to the courts,
And the whole world to see
That
“Love is for everyone!”
Especially you & me.

I will Always, Always
Love you both
Out Loud!
Paulette
Xox

(first posted on Facebook, 5 October 2010)

DAY 173 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


"When people fear the government, thats Tyranny. But when the government fears the people, that is Liberty."
- Senator Nancy Schaefer, who exposed CPS as a child kidnapping ring, and who was murdered in her home.

"THE CHILD" - coming in November 2010.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-9rksEZjLY&feature=related

(first posted on Facebook, 4 October 2010)

DAY 172 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Adriel, I have always enjoyed playing with you at playgrounds. Too bad we do not have a chance to play together on this suspension bridge which is located just below grandma's flat at Serangoon Ave 4 where you are staying now... or perhaps you have already moved to another address, I am not sure. I really hope to know your whereabouts, son..

(first posted on Facebook, 3 October 2010)

DAY 171 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


A rather blurry picture of us sharing a ride on the Luge at Sentosa many years ago when you were still quite young. The Luge ride was definitely your favourite activity there. As you grew older you became really good at it and soon your old man was trailing behind you.

Its been more than 2 years since we went to Sentosa together, I wonder how fast are you now. : )

(first posted on Facebook, 2 October 2010)

DAY 170 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Here's the promo trailer for the powerful documentary film, "THE CHILD" coming in November 2010.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ul6Eod0j8Q4&feature=related

Parental Rights are GOD given, no one should meddle with that and go against GOD's will. There will be consequences for attempting to play God..

(first posted on Facebook, 1 October 2010)

DAY 169 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :

Happy Children's Day, Adriel ! : )

This is the last time that you are celebrating this occasion, as you will be a young teenager next year. Though I am still being disallowed from seeing you, God knows how much I want to spend this day with you, son.

This song is for all the children whose parents are being restricted or blocked by the authorities from being with them. Children, always know that both your dads and mums love you equally, and that would remain unchanged no matter what obstacles are being put in their way.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtSbedMeF6s&feature=related


(first posted on Facebook, 30 September 2010)

DAY 168 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Me and mommy threw a party for you at Rasa Sentosa Resort Hotel on your 8th birthday and many of your classmates were there to celebrate with you. You boys had so much fun playing that day : )
Other than riding in cars, I know you love hotel stays, and Daddy would always do my best to book hotel stays at Rasa Sentosa, Ritz Carlton, Westin Stamford, Pan Pacific, Traders etc, so that the 3 of us can spend quality time together.

(first posted on Facebook, 29 September 2010)

DAY 167 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


Lol..this was you being very amazed to find such a huge pumpkin at the Tanglin Mall supermarket some years ago. I remember the 3 of us all love to do supermarket shopping, and you are always playing with the cart : )

(first posted on Facebook, 28 September 2010)

DAY 166 (of the 6-month cut-off from my son by the Singapore Family Court without any valid reasons) :


“I have not cried for awhile Cheng. I held back my tears for fear that the court would judge me as ‘crazy’ and make it worse.They are always looking for something to judge and scrutunize me over, even the slightest cry... for help is crushed. Yesterday I had a very bad day in court. And today, seeing your comment finally got me to cry and get those tears out. I know how you feel. I love to teach my children too, that is one thing that good parents do. And it does show me that you are a good dad and that you do want the best for your children. My heart goes out to you because I know that children thrive better when they are allowed to see their loving parents. And thank you, because I needed to cry. I do not understand why anybody would do this to us or our children. I hope to God that they stop this inhumane torture of the innocents”
- Renea J Chafe, my friend from Deerfield Beach, FL.

(first posted on Facebook, 27 September 2010)